Its been 5 days now.. and I couldn't push this phrase off my mind till now... So, thought of pushing it off my head by writing it down.. and what else could be the better place than my blog... ???? :)
I read it in a forwarded email some 5 or 6 years back.. of course, I was pretty young at that time to find any deeper meanings out of these 3 words.,... All I saw in that email was sweet music ringing along with some really cute teddy bears, that were slowly dancing with the music... :)
I forgot the actual content of that email... and these 3 words just found some place in my already messy mind... and now after 5 or 6 years, on a hot summer afternoon... these 3 words just Came back.. crashing and making their way into my memories.... and now I realize how little I understood them at that time...
Now, when I come to think of it.. the email or the article was like about 3 kind of people who come in our life... and leave their marks on your life... some of them come in your life just for some Reason... they come for a short while.. do their job and leave them... you won't miss them after they leave...
the second category is a bit more lasting... they come for a period of your life.. like school life.. or university life.. as I understand it... but they have limited power over your lives.. they usually give you a huge amount of enjoyment and pleasure.. but that ends after a season... due to one or another reason, you either stop talking to them.. or they simply quit.. or they die or just walk out of your lives without doing you any harm.. and little benefit...
The Third kind is quite obviously the purest and everlasting kind... those who Shape and Form your lives... they always think of the best interest for you... and are always there whenever you need them.,. no matter what season.. and for which reason you need them.. :)
Those are the right kind.. STICK up to them.. !!! Don't let them go out of your lives so easily... go after them if they get angry at you... don't sacrifice a possibly long-lasting relationship on a simple matter of so-called-ego and some harsh words....
The Success of a person lies in realizing all 3 kinds successfully, and handling them accordingly... Never take a person just for a Reason.. as your life time asset.. and never take for granted the people whom you should cherish most...!!!
Now, as I think of it.. this is usually the most grave yet so easily made up mistake... we realized too late what a person meant for us... we let go of our friends.. thinking may be they weren't worth our friendship... but sometime in our life.. we do realize that we did make a mistake...
And that realization is usually too late..
SO, don't let this happen to you... !!!! Look carefully for the people who are in your life just for a Reason.. or for a Season.. or for Life Time.....
I found this wonderful pic to share on this topic... Enjoy!!! Going to sleep now.. :)
I read it in a forwarded email some 5 or 6 years back.. of course, I was pretty young at that time to find any deeper meanings out of these 3 words.,... All I saw in that email was sweet music ringing along with some really cute teddy bears, that were slowly dancing with the music... :)
I forgot the actual content of that email... and these 3 words just found some place in my already messy mind... and now after 5 or 6 years, on a hot summer afternoon... these 3 words just Came back.. crashing and making their way into my memories.... and now I realize how little I understood them at that time...
Now, when I come to think of it.. the email or the article was like about 3 kind of people who come in our life... and leave their marks on your life... some of them come in your life just for some Reason... they come for a short while.. do their job and leave them... you won't miss them after they leave...
the second category is a bit more lasting... they come for a period of your life.. like school life.. or university life.. as I understand it... but they have limited power over your lives.. they usually give you a huge amount of enjoyment and pleasure.. but that ends after a season... due to one or another reason, you either stop talking to them.. or they simply quit.. or they die or just walk out of your lives without doing you any harm.. and little benefit...
The Third kind is quite obviously the purest and everlasting kind... those who Shape and Form your lives... they always think of the best interest for you... and are always there whenever you need them.,. no matter what season.. and for which reason you need them.. :)
Those are the right kind.. STICK up to them.. !!! Don't let them go out of your lives so easily... go after them if they get angry at you... don't sacrifice a possibly long-lasting relationship on a simple matter of so-called-ego and some harsh words....
The Success of a person lies in realizing all 3 kinds successfully, and handling them accordingly... Never take a person just for a Reason.. as your life time asset.. and never take for granted the people whom you should cherish most...!!!
Now, as I think of it.. this is usually the most grave yet so easily made up mistake... we realized too late what a person meant for us... we let go of our friends.. thinking may be they weren't worth our friendship... but sometime in our life.. we do realize that we did make a mistake...
And that realization is usually too late..
SO, don't let this happen to you... !!!! Look carefully for the people who are in your life just for a Reason.. or for a Season.. or for Life Time.....
I found this wonderful pic to share on this topic... Enjoy!!! Going to sleep now.. :)
reaily liked it. now starting to think of different peoples in in terms of Reason, Season and Life Time
ReplyDeleteAn inspiring post!
ReplyDeleteI can quite settle with the idea that every category should be valued to the level they deserve. No more no less than that and foisting up delirium in any case wont let us win accolades as trying cosmetic things for happiness rarely works.
It's never too late to fix things up with the people that once were.
ReplyDelete"We must accept finite disappointment, but we must never lose infinite hope. "
Martin Luther King Jr.
Very Inspirational Post. Thoughts are very well expressed. I am really very impressed.
ReplyDeleteVery Well Written and Thought Provoking Post !
ReplyDeleteVery Nice share Rubab:)
ReplyDeleteplease continue with your blogging i was inspired with it,espcially w your daily journals... keep it up(Y)! proud to have a kindered spirit like you as my friend.. :)
Very nice Share!!
ReplyDeletei was surprised and at the same time very happy to discover another kindered spirit..:)
went thru all your blogs .. u have done a great job(Y)
proud of you my friend!
kepp it up.
Im inspired.. :)
Thanks everyone.. :) you have appreciated way more than what I expected... :D
ReplyDeleteNot having words to express such riveting and adorning post ...
ReplyDeleteTruly loved it much :)