Just came across a sad song that I listened to after a long time.. and a thought suddenly struck me... what percentage of songs and literature is dedicated to mourning for the ones who are gone...!!! almost 75%.. thats a huge percentage... of all the songs we listen to, there are around 75% songs that are based on either the gone moments, or on missing someone, or remembering some long gone loved ones.... (as per my observation..).. What came to my mind is..
WHY???
Why we do so? why don't we just learn to Let go..?
Why don't we compromise on the facts that some people just aren't meant for us... or instead of mourning over gone moments, we should be happy that atleast we had them once...!!
The Answer is simple, because we don't want to... :) getting rid of old memories is diffcuilt than hanging on to them.. so everyone goes for the easier option.., not knowing what the consequences can be of sticking to same old point...!!
A person can make his/her life better by just realizing this... All is not gone.. the things that's gone was not meant for you... !! you have something better in store from God... :)
so, learn to forget.. learn to forgive.. and Learn to let Go.. !!!
WHY???
Why we do so? why don't we just learn to Let go..?
Why don't we compromise on the facts that some people just aren't meant for us... or instead of mourning over gone moments, we should be happy that atleast we had them once...!!
The Answer is simple, because we don't want to... :) getting rid of old memories is diffcuilt than hanging on to them.. so everyone goes for the easier option.., not knowing what the consequences can be of sticking to same old point...!!
A person can make his/her life better by just realizing this... All is not gone.. the things that's gone was not meant for you... !! you have something better in store from God... :)
so, learn to forget.. learn to forgive.. and Learn to let Go.. !!!
Don't consider anyone or anything so important in your life that you won't be able to survive without them.... !!Love everyone, and help everyone.. but keep in mind that the person you helped once, might not come back to you in your hour of need.. thats totally Okay... someone else will surely come, or better still, you might find the way out of problem yourself.... God doesn't leave anyone alone... !!
Seriously, I've seen cases, where people ruin their lives for the gone ones, without even realizing it..!! Please come out of it...! you can either build or destroy your life with your own actions and thoughts....!! There's nothing more important than your own life... and your happiness.!!
Learn to live every moment of it,, and Don't look back..!!!
Just go forward in the search of a better present and future... Past is gone and won't come back..
I guess, enough debate.. gonna sleep now.. have Fun.. :)
Learn to live every moment of it,, and Don't look back..!!!
Just go forward in the search of a better present and future... Past is gone and won't come back..
I guess, enough debate.. gonna sleep now.. have Fun.. :)
Very well said Rubab!! after reading i realized that around 50 or more songs i like are falls in the same 'mourning' category...
ReplyDeleteYou are right about 'Living Life Everyday'!
yes, we can't go into past and change it. it is best candidate for the garbage collector of our mind :). past is only important when we utilize our past experience to make our future as good as possible.
ReplyDeletebut still it is very difficult to get rid off pleasant moments and painful memories of the past.
Although I agree with most of your views but I disagree with this "There's nothing more important than your own life... and your happiness.!!". There are many things which are more important than our own humble existence, which are for some people, love of our country and happiness of others, sacrificing our own lives for that of others. Your sentence has a bit of selfishness in it.
ReplyDeletePeople who care for themselves should not lecture those who live for others.